Do we understand what makes us happy? And if we do, can we make ourselves happier? These are the questions Yale Professor Laurie Santos has been studying for years. As students navigate back to school, Dr. Santos and the U.S. Surgeon General explore how we can help our kids, and ourselves, find greater happiness through changing our behavior and shifting our mindset. In a world in which our happiness might feel driven by externalities, creating our own happiness is within our reach, says Dr. Santos. Tune in and see if you can figure out where your happiness lies. The answer might surprise you.
Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor of Psychology at Yale University and Host of the podcast, “The Happiness Lab”
Twitter: @lauriesantos
Instagram: @lauriesantosofficial
Facebook: @DrLaurieSantos
About Dr. Laurie Santos
Dr. Laurie Santos is Professor of Psychology at Yale University and host of the podcast The Happiness Lab. Dr. Santos is an expert on human cognition and the cognitive biases that impede better choices. Her course, “Psychology and the Good Life,” teaches students what the science of psychology says about how to make wiser choices and live a life that’s happier and more fulfilling. The class is Yale’s most popular course in over 300 years and has been adapted into a free Coursera program that has been taken by over 3.9 million people to date.
Dr. Santos has been featured in numerous news outlets including the New York Times, NBC Nightly News, The Today Show, CBS This Morning, NPR, GQ Magazine, Slate, CNN and O, The Oprah Magazine. Dr. Santos is a winner of numerous awards both for her science and teaching from institutions such as Yale and the American Psychological Association. She has been featured as one of Popular Science’s “Brilliant 10” young minds and was named TIME's “Leading Campus Celebrity.”

Dr. Laurie Santos: What Makes Us Happy?

Do you believe conversations can heal? I do. I’m U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy. When I was growing up, my father would make “house calls,” bringing medical care to patients at home. The relationships he built with his patients through conversation were an essential part of healing. On House Calls, I carry forward this tradition. In each episode, I take my guests off-script to explore how they navigate the messiness and uncertainties of life to find meaning and joy. By sharing openly what’s on our minds and in our hearts, we can find strength and healing through connection.

Health & Fitness

Mental Health

In this special episode, Dr. Murthy sits down with Sara Bareilles, Grammy award-winning singer-songwriter and actress, and Celia Keenan-Bolger, Tony award-winning singer and actress. You may know more about them as performers than you do about their experiences with mental health, but this conversation will change that. 
As two very good friends who are warm, funny, and genuine, this conversation is an intimate portrait of their friendship and its importance to mental health. Their conversation explores questions many of us have on our minds: How do you prioritize friendship when the world demands us to be so productive? What does it mean to show up for one another? And how do you overcome questions of self-worth and find the courage to speak openly about your mental health?
As you listen, we hope you feel their friendship effect, too. Sara Bareilles closes out the episode with a surprise performance.
This episode was recorded LIVE in New York. Special thanks to the 92NY for hosting.
(03:55)    How did Sara Bareilles and Celia Keenan-Bolger meet and become good friends?
(08:33)    How can we make friends and have healthy social lives as we get older?
(18:03)    Is there a difference between the way men and women make friends in middle age?
(25:54)    How do Sara Bareilles and Celia Keenan-Bolger create the space for friendship in a world that’s always asking them to be more productive?
(33:24)    How do Sara Bareilles and Celia Keenan-Bolger balance online activity with real-world friendships?
(44:02)    Where did Sara Bareilles and Celia Keenan-Bolger find the courage and clarity to speak openly about their mental health?
(52:41)    How have Sara Bareilles and Celia Keenan-Bolger dealt with feelings about lack of self-worth when they arise?
(01:02:19)    What are some of Dr. Murthy’s and his guests’ favorite lyrics?
(01:12:52)    A special performance by Sara Bareilles
We’d love to hear from you! Send us a note at ⁠housecalls@hhs.gov⁠ with your feedback & ideas. For more episodes, visit ⁠www.surgeongeneral.gov/housecalls⁠.
Sara Bareilles, Singer-Songwriter & Actress
Instagram: ⁠@sarabareilles⁠
X: ⁠@SaraBareilles⁠
Facebook: ⁠@sarabareilles⁠
Celia Keenan-Bolger, Actress & Singer
Instagram: ⁠@celiakb⁠
About Sara Bareilles and Celia Keenan-Bolger
Sara Bareilles has received three Tony® Award nominations, most recently in 2023 for her performance as ‘The Baker’s Wife’ in Stephen Sondheim and James Lapine’s Into the Woods – three Primetime Emmy® Award nominations and nine GRAMMY® Award nominations. On Broadway, she composed music and lyrics for Waitress, and stepped into the lead role both on Broadway and in the West End. Most recently, she starred in the filmed live-capture of Waitress: The Musical, which ran for two weeks in theatres nationwide in December 2023. Her other musical theater credits include a song on the Tony Award-nominated score for SpongeBob SquarePants and Emmy Award-nominated appearance as Mary Magdalene in NBC's “Jesus Christ Superstar Live.” Bareilles produced original music and executive-produced the musical drama series “Little Voice,” teaming up with Jessie Nelson, J.J. Abrams and Apple. She also plays Dawn Solano on the Emmy-nominated musical comedy series “Girls5eva”, the third season of which premieres in March 2024 on Netflix. 
Celia Keenan-Bolger is an actress and singer. She won the Tony Award for Best Featured Actress in a Play for portraying Scout Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird (2018). She has also been Tony-nominated for her roles in The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee (2005), Peter and the Starcatcher (2012), The Glass Menagerie (2014), and her most recent role in Mother Play (2024). Other credits - Broadway: The Cherry Orchard, Les Misérables. Off-Broadway: The Oldest Boy, Merrily We Roll Along, A Small Fire. Select Film/TV: “The Gilded Age,” “Bull,” “Louie,” “The Good Wife,” “Nurse Jackie,” “Good Behavior,” “Elementary". Tony Award, Outer Critics Circle, three Drama Desk Award wins.

Sara Bareilles & Celia Keenan-Bolger: How Do Art and Friendship Set the Stage for Our Mental Health?

As a parent, have you ever worried about whether you’re doing a good enough job? Do you feel the pressure to be perfect? Have you felt drained by the demands of parenting?
In this deeply personal conversation, the Surgeon General (and dad of 2) and psychologist Dr. Aliza Pressman put the spotlight on parent mental health. Dr. Pressman changes the conversation from trying to be the perfect parent to growing as a parent. To help our kids’ mental health, we also need to prioritize and care for parent mental health.
Drawing from her research, Dr. Pressman offers reassuring approaches to help parents find self-compassion and stay regulated so kids can better regulate themselves. She also shares how to turn moments when things go wrong into moments for repair and growth in parent-child relationships.
The conversation ends with a parenting Q&A;, hosted by Dr. Murthy and surprise Q&A; co-host Kate Bowler! 
(04:00)    What challenges does Aliza Pressman see parents facing today? 
(05:00)    Why can it feel difficult to talk about the joys of parenting? 
(07:55)    What’s the upside of being an imperfect parent? 
(10:15)    How does parent mental health influence kids? 
(12:49)    What does Dr. Murthy see in his own parents parenting journey? 
(18:55)    What is self-regulation and how do we cultivate it? 
(30:47)    Why do parents feel exhausted and drained these days? 
(34:21)    Can we get clear on the goal of parenting? 
(43:44)    How does Aliza handle the flow of news and information to herself and her kids? 
(50:38)    What are 5 ways to help children become resilient people? 
(57:30)    Parenting Q&A; with the Surgeon General & Kate Bowler
We’d love to hear from you! Send us a note at ⁠housecalls@hhs.gov⁠ with your feedback & ideas. For more episodes, visit ⁠www.surgeongeneral.gov/housecalls⁠. 


Dr. Aliza Pressman, Psychologist & Author 
Instagram: ⁠@raisinggoodhumanspodcast⁠ 
Facebook: ⁠@raisinggoodhumanspodcast⁠ 
Substack: ⁠@dralizapressman⁠ 
 
About Dr. Aliza Pressman 
Dr. Aliza Pressman is a developmental psychologist with two decades experience working with families.  She is the author of the New York Times bestselling book, “The 5 Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans,” and the host of the popular podcast “Raising Good Humans”.  Aliza is the co-founding director of The Mount Sinai Parenting Center and is an assistant clinical professor at Mount Sinai Hospital. She holds degrees from Dartmouth College, Teacher's College, and Columbia University. Aliza is the mother of two teenagers.

Dr. Aliza Pressman: Why Parent Mental Health is Essential for Our Kids

What is our purpose, both individually and collectively? What lies in the balance of who we are now and who we will become? 


In Part Two of this episode, the Surgeon General and Shankar Vedantam, host of “Hidden Brain,” go deep into conversation about our individual and national quest for meaning and purpose. 


This episode becomes deeply personal as both host and guest reveal their family’s hopes for coming to America, and the unimaginable ways in which those dreams were realized. They find themselves asking where else on earth has what America can offer? And how can we remember and reinforce our ideals at moments the noise becomes too great? 


(03:23)    How can we encourage young people to dream about the future? 
(09:21)    How can we bring freshness and curiosity to our daily lives? 
(11:57)    What does it mean to be a tourist in our own lives? 
(15:28)    What is the power of having purpose in our lives? 
(22:39)    What’s the difference between goals and purpose? 
(25:39)    How would Dr. Murthy bolster America’s sense of purpose? 
(28:58)    What is the enormous possibility that the United States offers? 
(30:16)    What story of America did Dr. Murthy see in the crowd at his swearing in ceremony? 
(32:51)    Who are Shankar Vedantam’s Unsung Heroes? 
 
We’d love to hear from you! Send us a note at housecalls@hhs.gov with your feedback & ideas. For more episodes, visit www.surgeongeneral.gov/housecalls.   
 
Shankar Vedantam, Host, “Hidden Brain” Podcast 
Instagram: @hiddenbrain  
X: @hiddenbrain 
Facebook: @hiddenbrain 
 
About Shankar Vedantam 
Shankar Vedantam is the host and executive editor of the Hidden Brain podcast and radio show. Shankar and NPR launched the podcast in 2015, and it now receives millions of downloads per week, and is regularly listed as one of the top 20 podcasts in the world. The radio show, which debuted in 2017, is heard on more than 425 public radio stations across the United States.  
 
Vedantam was NPR’s social science correspondent between 2011 and 2020, and he spent 10 years as a reporter at The Washington Post. From 2007 to 2009, he was also a columnist, and wrote the Department of Human Behavior column for the Post.  
 
Vedantam and Hidden Brain have been recognized with numerous journalism awards, including the Edward R Murrow Award, and honors from the American Association for the Advancement of Science, the Society for Personality and Social Psychology, the International Society of Political Psychology, the Society of Professional Journalists, the National Association of Black Journalists, the Austen Riggs Center, the American Psychoanalytic Association, the Webby Awards, the Pennsylvania Associated Press Managing Editors, the South Asian Journalists Association, the Asian American Journalists Association, the Pennsylvania Newspaper Association, the American Public Health Association, the Templeton-Cambridge Fellowship on Science and Religion, and the Rosalynn Carter Mental Health Journalism Fellowship.  
 
In 2009-2010, Vedantam served as a fellow at the Nieman Foundation for Journalism at Harvard University. 
  
Shankar Vedantam speaks internationally about how the “hidden brain” shapes our world and is the author of two non-fiction books: The Hidden Brain: How our Unconscious Minds Elect Presidents, Control Markets, Wage Wars and Save Our Lives, published in 2010, and Useful Delusions: The Power and Paradox of the Self-Deceiving Brain published in 2021, an exploration of deception’s role in human success.  

Shankar Vedantam: How Do Our Minds Help (or Hinder) Finding Connection & Purpose? (Part 2)

Have you ever had a moment when you’ve wanted to reach out to someone you haven’t seen in awhile, but something stops you, like the worry you’ll say the wrong thing?  Or have you had the experience of assuming that someone who disagrees with you must also dislike you?  
It turns out, our mind can play tricks on us that make it harder to connect.  
Shankar Vedantam, host and creator of the podcast ”Hidden Brain” joins the Surgeon General for a two-part conversation that travels across science and deeper philosophical questions about life.  
In this first conversation, Shankar explains the “hidden brain,” the part of the mind that function outside of our awareness, making unconscious decisions and judgments. They ponder the paradox of how social anxieties keep us from connecting, but how acts of connection and kindness have far greater impact and power than most of us realize.  
 
Offering both science and personal stories, Shankar and Dr. Murthy help us work through our fears of connecting. And help us close the gap between our values, like kindness, and our actions. 
(04:04)    How does Shankar Vedantam describe the origins of the Hidden Brain podcast? 
(06:18)    How can we understand if our hidden brain is helping us? 
(08:34)    How does our hidden brain keep us from connecting with other people? 
(14:04)    What does it mean to express gratitude to someone else? 
(18:39)    How has Dr. Murthy cultivated his sense of kind and warmth? 
(24:20)    How can we tell a better story about the nature of our humanity? 
(29:36)    How did Shankar Vedantam become a translator of science? 
(33:12)    How do listeners respond to the Hidden Brain podcast? 
(36:12)    How are ideas for Hidden Brain podcast episodes developed? 
 
We’d love to hear from you! Send us a note at housecalls@hhs.gov with your feedback & ideas. For more episodes, visit www.surgeongeneral.gov/housecalls.   
 
Shankar Vedantam, Host, “Hidden Brain” Podcast 
Instagram: @hiddenbrain  
X: @hiddenbrain 
Facebook: @hiddenbrain 
 
About Shankar Vedantam 
Shankar Vedantam is the host and executive editor of the Hidden Brain podcast and radio show. Shankar and NPR launched the podcast in 2015, and it now receives millions of downloads per week, and is regularly listed as one of the top 20 podcasts in the world. The radio show, which debuted in 2017, is heard on more than 425 public radio stations across the United States.  
 
Vedantam was NPR’s social science correspondent between 2011 and 2020, and he spent 10 years as a reporter at The Washington Post. From 2007 to 2009, he was also a columnist, and wrote the Department of Human Behavior column for the Post.  
 
Vedantam and Hidden Brain have been recognized with numerous journalism awards, including the Edward R Murrow Award, and honors from the American Association for the Advancement of Science, the Society for Personality and Social Psychology, the International Society of Political Psychology, the Society of Professional Journalists, the National Association of Black Journalists, the Austen Riggs Center, the American Psychoanalytic Association, the Webby Awards, the Pennsylvania Associated Press Managing Editors, the South Asian Journalists Association, the Asian American Journalists Association, the Pennsylvania Newspaper Association, the American Public Health Association, the Templeton-Cambridge Fellowship on Science and Religion, and the Rosalynn Carter Mental Health Journalism Fellowship.  
 
In 2009-2010, Vedantam served as a fellow at the Nieman Foundation for Journalism at Harvard University. 
  
Shankar Vedantam speaks internationally about how the “hidden brain” shapes our world and is the author of two non-fiction books: The Hidden Brain: How our Unconscious Minds Elect Presidents, Control Markets, Wage Wars and Save Our Lives, published in 2010, and Useful Delusions: The Power and Paradox of the Self-Deceiving Brain published in 2021, an exploration of deception’s role in human success.  

Shankar Vedantam: How Do Our Minds Help (or Hinder) Finding Connection & Purpose? (Part 1)

What is hope and why is it so powerful? 
For writer Rebecca Solnit, hope is a commitment to possibility in the face of uncertainty. While many of us react to the unknown with anxiety or worry, Rebecca sees the opposite: that inherent to unpredictable circumstances is the possibility people can take action and to come together to create change. 
In this conversation, Rebecca Solnit and the Surgeon General discuss why hope is necessary. They look back at communities formed in response to disasters, like 9/11 and hurricanes, and how hope and connection are inextricably linked. A historian, Solnit points to milestones like the fall of the Berlin Wall in which people’s actions, sometimes incremental, led to unforeseen outcomes. 
In facing the massive uncertainty of climate change, Solnit offers why she is hopeful. Rather than fall to despair, she points that humans, throughout history, have seen the possibility to intervene and take action. And THAT is what Solnit calls hope.   
(04:34)    Why can disasters be so powerful for uniting communities? 
(11:16)    Why do some types of disasters bring people more together than others? 
(16:55)    How do you advise young people who feel despair about climate change? 
(27:21)    How can the way we remember history’s great social changes contribute to hope or hopelessness? 
(31:28)    How does social media contribute to loneliness and isolation? 
(37:45)    Has tech convinced us that living efficiently is more important than living in person? 
(47:33)    How does Rebecca Solnit make herself feel better when she gets down? 
(48:35)    What does the Surgeon General do to feel better when he is down? 
We’d love to hear from you! Send us a note at housecalls@hhs.gov with your feedback & ideas. For more episodes, visit www.surgeongeneral.gov/housecalls.   


Rebecca Solnit, Writer
X: @rebeccasolnit 
X: @nottoolate_hope 
 
About Rebecca Solnit 
Writer, historian, and activist Rebecca Solnit is the author of twenty-five books on feminism, environmental and urban history, popular power, social change and insurrection, wandering and walking, hope and catastrophe. She co-edited the 2023 anthology “Not Too Late: Changing the Climate Story from Despair to Possibility”. Her other books include “Orwell’s Roses”; “Recollections of My Nonexistence”; “Hope in the Dark”; “Men Explain Things to Me”; “A Paradise Built in Hell: The Extraordinary Communities that Arise in Disaster”; and “A Field Guide to Getting Lost”. A product of the California public education system from kindergarten to graduate school, she writes regularly for the Guardian, serves on the board of the climate group Oil Change International, and in 2022 launched the climate project Not Too Late (nottoolateclimate.com).

Dr. Laurie Santos: What Makes Us Happy?

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