This week the ladies are joined by Divine Sol, a shadow healer. They learn more about the work she does as well as lessons on love, shadow work, and the power of intentionality in relationships and life. Bottoms up to enlightenment!Head to FACTORMEALS.com/cocktales50 and use code cocktales50 to get 50% off!Check out some of our other sponsors here: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsLooking for new experiences?WBT is going to Hedonism II in December! 12/9-12/14Follow the link to secure your spot today!https://www.worstbehaviortour.com/Follow Our Guest @iamdivinesolhttps://iamdivinesol.com/Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com ***Cards are scheduled to ship on or after 9/6Get Klassy Baste Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin My Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! https://10vacationdays.com/ Use code KIKI- We're going to St. Lucia Feb 15-20Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeGet Medinah's Coffee Mug: www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Ep. 370 "Pre-Sacred P***y On The Way To Awareness " ft. Divine Sol w/ Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating lives, relationships, and what it's really like to navigate the sea of love in Atlanta. On CockTales, the ladies gather over great drinks and discuss the latest happenings in their sexual experiences dating lives.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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On this episode we discuss attending a friend's wedding and upcoming travel plans! (Don't forget to fill out Kiki's survey/questionnaire and if you're interested in a cold and beautiful destination, travel with Medinah to Iceland!) Now for the main discussion; are you a good leader? Are you a good listener? And when women ask to be led, are they truly open to it? Hear our takes on all of it.Detailed Show Notes BelowInterested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel SurveySPONSORED OFFERSCheck out Bloom Stoies! Use our code COCKTALES for a discount on your membership https://bloomstories.com/?utm_campaign=cocktalesGo to songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value!For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.comFollow Us on Ig & TikTok@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanJoin Patreonhttps://www.patreon.com/CocktalesWant to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at sales@cocktalespod.comInterested in being a guest?Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links!Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comSHOW NOTES:Communication and Consideration in Relationships:The podcast episode delves into the crucial role of communication and consideration in distinguishing between controlling behavior and effective leadership within a relationship.Kiki and Medinah Monroe underscore the difference between a controlling partner and a good leader by emphasizing the importance of active listening and fostering a safe environment for open dialogue.They illustrate this distinction with an example where a controlling individual would make decisions unilaterally without regard for their partner's thoughts or feelings, whereas a good leader would engage in discussions, seek feedback, and make decisions that benefit both parties.The hosts emphasize the significance of mutual understanding, thoughtful decision-making, and consideration for each other's needs and desires in maintaining a healthy relationship dynamic.They also highlight the transformative impact of effective communication in relationships, where partners should feel empowered to express their opinions and concerns without fear of judgment or dismissal.The episode underscores the necessity of mutual respect, attentive listening, and a collaborative approach to decision-making in relationships to cultivate a harmonious balance between leadership and autonomy.In the podcast episode, Kiki and Medinah stress the importance of both partners having a voice and being actively engaged in decision-making processes to uphold a healthy relationship dynamic. Kiki expresses her preference for the man to take the lead in a relationship and make decisions, while also emphasizing the...

Ep. 396 "Who's the Boss? Navigating Love and Leadership"

This week we have a special guest, Lamont White, the founder of A Better Way to Meet, an Atlanta-based matchmaking company for gay men. Lamont shares his journey from being a therapist to becoming a matchmaker and dating coach, emphasizing the unique challenges and dynamics within the gay dating scene.Detailed Show Notes BelowInterested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel SurveySPONSORED OFFERSGo to songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value!Try Afterglow with a free 7 day trial for our listeners using code COCKTALES www.cocktalespodcast.comFor more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.comFollow Us on Ig & TikTok@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @thegaydatingcoachJoin Patreonhttps://www.patreon.com/CocktalesWant to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at sales@cocktalespod.comInterested in being a guest?Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links!Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comDating coaching and matchmaking for gay men, as discussed in the podcast episode, focuses on several key factors to ensure successful matches. These factors include attractiveness, independence, masculinity, and sexual compatibility.Attractiveness plays a significant role in the matchmaking process. While attractiveness can vary from person to person, it is essential to consider physical appearance as a factor in potential matches. This includes factors like body type, height, and overall physical appeal.Independence is another crucial aspect considered in matchmaking for gay men. The ability to be self-sufficient and not rely on a partner for financial or emotional support is valued. Independence shows maturity and a sense of self-reliance, which can contribute to a healthy and balanced relationship.Masculinity is also a key factor in matchmaking for gay men. While masculinity can be expressed in various ways, having a level of masculinity that aligns with the individual's preferences is important. Some individuals may prefer partners who exhibit more traditional masculine traits, while others may be open to a range of expressions of masculinity.Sexual compatibility is a fundamental aspect of matchmaking for gay men. Understanding each individual's preferences, roles (top, bottom, versatile), and boundaries in the bedroom is crucial for creating successful and fulfilling relationships. Open communication about sexual preferences and desires is essential for ensuring compatibility in this area.Overall, dating coaching and matchmaking for gay men aim to create matches based on a combination of these factors to foster healthy, fulfilling, and long-lasting relationships. By considering attractiveness, independence, masculinity, and sexual compatibility, matchmaking...

Ep. 395 "Matchmaking From Top To Bottom" ft. Lamont White The Gay Dating Coach & Matchmaker

**TRIGGER WARNING: We want to let you know that today's episode addresses the topic of domestic violence, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know needs support, please reach out to trusted friends, family, or professional organizations. If you're in immediate danger, call emergency services.This week we are joined by Ariel B., host of "This Too Shall Pass" podcast, who bravely shared her personal journey of surviving an abusive relationship, and finding herself after so many major life changing experiences. She sheds light on the importance of understanding family dynamics and relationships, particularly when warning signs are present, and how that directly impacted her life.More detailed show notes below.National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233https://www.thehotline.org/***Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233). https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/internet-safety/and remember to clear your browser history after visiting this website.**********************************************************************************Interested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for an upcoming trip! https://surveys.seekdharma.com/01HY46EF7ZJJWR8A7W1CBXXATWSPONSORED OFFERSControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at https://www.lumedeodorant.com! #lumepodTry VIIA Hemp!https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir;_token=QUFFLUhqbVhObGhJU3RlU1dRcVBXQi1oMXJRdkhFX0lHd3xBQ3Jtc0ttQmFjYmhkNFUwNFZVeG9lR3BhLXZuNnVYQ1FNYlZBYUhqWlZERnlzT2JxVHVwRk1vNEdwOFBCd2p1MUpxMkRSS0tRcHlGbEJJSWxkTHpiUE1ncTRhSjVHSGhySWRDajBaNExaMmhvYVp2UG1MMHBFOA&q;=https%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2F3J1UitO&v;=rID81M3KmOYhttps://bit.ly/3J1UitO and use code COCKTALES!Go to https://www.songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value!For more special offers for our listeners please visit https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsFollow Us on Ig & TikTok@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @the_arielb and Check out her podcast https://www.thistooshallpasspod.comJoin Patreonhttps://www.patreon.com/CocktalesHere are key takeaways from the episode that emphasize the significance of delving deeper into family dynamics:Recognizing Warning Signs: Ariel candidly discussed how she overlooked crucial red flags in her relationship with her ex-husband, such as his anger issues and concerning behavior when under the influence. These warning signs were apparent early on but were not addressed or questioned at the time.Family Background: Ariel stressed the importance of comprehending a partner's family background. She revealed that her ex-husband came from a family with a history of abuse and dysfunctional dynamics, potentially influencing his behavior. This underscores the need to investigate and understand a partner's family history to identify potential issues or patterns.Impact on Children: Ariel's experience highlighted how family dynamics and relationships can impact children. Her son exhibited fear and discomfort around her ex-husband's behavior, illustrating the influence of family dynamics on children's emotional well-being.Seeking Support: Ariel's friend played a pivotal role in supporting her by consistently checking in and encouraging open communication. This underscores the importance of having a supportive...

Ep. 394 "This Too Shall Pass" ft. Ariel B. w/ hosts Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

In this episode, we kicked things off with a delicious cocktail recipe, the Tease Me Mojito, perfect for those who love a tropical twist on their drinks.We then dived into some juicy discussions about our recent travels and experiences. Kiki shares all about her fantastic trip to Turks and Caicos where she celebrated a friend's birthday. It was an amazing getaway with beautiful beaches, fun nights, and great company. We even played some intriguing games like I'm Curious to Know, which you can find at imcurioustoknow.com.We also touched on the topic of popular travel destinations and how some people view them as less desirable once they become mainstream.  Listen for our take. To wrap up, we discussed upcoming travel plans and encouraged our listeners to join us on potential group trips by participating in a survey linked in our episode description.Don't forget to check out our Patreon for some exclusive content from the trip, including some behind-the-scenes moments!Thanks for tuning in, and keep sipping those cocktails!Detailed Show Notes BelowInterested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel SurveySPONSORED OFFERSTry VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/3J1UitO and use code COCKTALES!Go to songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value!For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.comFollow Us on Ig & TikTok@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @mehganjamesJoin Patreonhttps://www.patreon.com/CocktalesWant to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at sales@cocktalespod.comInterested in being a guest?Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links!Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki <a...

Ep. 393 "Touch Me Tease Me" with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Welcome back to another episode of Cocktales Dirty Discussions! This week, we had the pleasure of chatting with Mehgan James, a reality TV star, producer, and fellow podcaster known for her appearances on shows like Bad Girls Club and Basketball Wives. We sipped on her new "Bad Stuff Tequila" while Mehgan shared some juicy details over about her experiences on reality TV, her personal life, and her views on relationships and dating plus a little tea on those infamous Diddy Parties.Detailed Show Notes BelowInterested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel SurveySPONSORED OFFERSGo to songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value!For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.comFollow Us on Ig & TikTok@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @mehganjamesJoin Patreonhttps://www.patreon.com/CocktalesWant to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at sales@cocktalespod.comInterested in being a guest?Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links!Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoEnjoy A Cocktail Making Class with Medinah - Tickets HereTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroePurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Key Highlights:Cocktail of the Day: We introduced "The Baddie," a delicious cocktail made with tequila, triple sec, cranberry juice, lime juice, and simple syrup, sponsored by Mehgan's friend's brand, Bad Stuff Tequila.Reality TV Insights: Mehgan opened up about her time on reality TV, particularly on Bad Girls Club and Basketball Wives. She discussed the challenges and the dynamics behind the scenes, emphasizing how these experiences shaped her public persona.Personal Life and Relationships: Mehgan talked candidly about her current relationship, mentioning how participating in reality shows like Basketball Wives helped her boyfriend understand her career better. She also touched on her past dating experiences, including her preference for younger men as she got older.Dating for Love vs. Money: Mehgan gave her take on dating for love versus dating for financial stability. She...

Ep. 370 "Pre-Sacred P***y On The Way To Awareness " ft. Divine Sol w/ Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

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